Interestingly, the biggest risk factor seems to be my blood clotting disorder, 'Factor V Leiden' (FVL). While it can be managed with daily injections of Low-Molecular-Weight Heparin (LMWH), there seems to be concern that FVL increases the overall risk of miscarriage and stillbirth.
The answer to whether or not I could stay on antidepressant drugs through a pregnancy is also unclear. The ideal would be to come off all medications, but that simply isn't an option.
Apparently, if my mystery illness does turn out to be lupus, that will also increase my risks.
So, do we want to chance it? I'm really not so sure right now.